September 27, 2026
Catastrophizing: Why You Always Expect the Worst
Your manager says "let's chat later", and within seconds your head has reached: I'm getting fired, I won't make rent, I'll have to move back home and everyone will be disappointed. That leap from a small event to a disaster has a name: catastrophizing.
What is catastrophizing?
Catastrophizing is one of the cognitive distortions described by psychiatrist Aaron Beck, the pioneer of cognitive therapy: the tendency to imagine the worst outcome of a situation, then treat it as if it's certain. It usually takes the form of an "if… then… and then…" chain that gets worse with each step.
Catastrophizing has also been studied extensively in the context of pain. Sullivan, Bishop, and Pivik (1995) developed a scale measuring its three elements: dwelling on it (rumination), blowing it up (magnification), and feeling powerless (helplessness). All three show up when we worry about things beyond physical pain too.
Our worries rarely come true
Research by LaFreniere and Newman (2020) asked people with excessive anxiety to log their worries for ten days, then check which ones actually happened. About 91% of their worries didn't come true. And of those that did, the outcome was often not as bad as imagined.
This doesn't mean every worry is wrong, but it shows that an anxious brain tends to overestimate the odds of disaster.
Everyday examples of catastrophizing
- "They haven't replied — they must be angry and this relationship is over."
- "I made a mistake in my presentation — everyone must think I'm incompetent."
- "My headaches won't stop — what if it's something serious?"
- "If I fail this test, my future is ruined."
How to stop catastrophizing
1. Catch the chain. Write down your sequence of thoughts: "event → then → then → disaster". Seeing it on paper often makes the leaps obvious.
2. Ask for three scenarios. What's the worst, what's the best, and what's most likely? The third answer is usually far lighter than the first.
3. Check your own track record. Like LaFreniere and Newman's study, log your worries and check back a few days later. Over time you'll have your own evidence that anxious thoughts often miss.
4. If the bad scenario happens, what would you do? Making a backup plan turns helplessness into readiness.
Collect your own evidence
Daily check-ins in rumputhijau keep a record of your worries, so you can look back at which ones actually happened. AI also helps separate facts from interpretation when your mind starts jumping to the worst case.
References
- Beck, A. T. (1976). Cognitive Therapy and the Emotional Disorders. International Universities Press.
- Sullivan, M. J. L., Bishop, S. R., & Pivik, J. (1995). The Pain Catastrophizing Scale: Development and validation. Psychological Assessment, 7(4), 524–532.
- LaFreniere, L. S., & Newman, M. G. (2020). Exposing worry's deceit: Percentage of untrue worries in generalized anxiety disorder treatment. Behavior Therapy, 51(3), 413–423.